Bag or Bed?

Lately, the bags in our house have become cat beds. . .

We really need to find a cat bed that Yeager Bomb likes.

Namaste.

Coach

I have had lots of experiences with coaches over the last three years.
And as the school looks for a new coach, I find myself thinking about what makes a good coach.

I realized that (in my opinion), it is very simple. . .
The coach should:
1) Assist the players in improving their skills.
2) Be able to communicate well (both to the parents and the players).
3) Be fair! Do what you say.

I don't care if the players like the coach. I don't care if they win championship (though it would be nice). I want my child (and the rest of the kids) to grow as players and have an equal shot of developing those skills. And of course, have fun (though I have found that the fun is created by the team, not the coach).

I understand that life will not be fair when they grow up, but THESE ARE KIDS and they should be able to experience sports AS KIDS with an environment where they can learn, understand and be able to work within the environment that what they are told is what will happen.

Namaste.

Transformation Update

The 2nd weigh-in was today. . .
I lost ~4 more lbs.

I don't know what my weight is, but I am being told my loss.

Namaste.

Sanity Check

I have been reading some funny wedding stories lately - mainly about Bride-zillas.
There have even been a few jokes about me turning into a Bride-zilla ("Where are the figs????").
I don't think I am, but deep down, I had some fears of there being some truth to the jokes. . .
So, I wanted to do a sanity check.
I found this definition on-line:

Bridezillaism is defined as the attitude of entitlement. Every real life bride, who I have identified as such, entered into her wedding planning with a definite attitude of selfishness and entitlement, which eventually, led to a disregard for the welfare of others.

Hmmm...
I frequently state that this is not "my" wedding, but "our" wedding.
The food? MBB's favorite.
The cake flavors? My favorite. The kids' favorite. One for the diabetics in the family.
The groom's cake? MBB's preference (he doesn't care for cake).
The bridesmaids' dressing? Their choice (I just picked the color, asked for it to be "about" knee length and short / no sleeves).
I created the guest list based on "the right thing to do" and as a result have had to leave some friends off of the list.
One or our registries is at a store know for the availability of 20% off coupons.
I deliberately chose things to put on that registry starting at $5. I didn't want to put high dollar items on it at all, but was reminded that some "groups" may want to buy a large gift. I put on just a few.
I am sticking to our budget and NO ONE will go into debt for this occasion.
I say "I" a lot in regards to the decision of the wedding, not because I have taken over, but because MBB really doesn't care. "Just tell me the time and location and I'll be there." is his response when I try to get him involved in the planning.

Am I turning into a Bride-zilla?
I hope not!

Namaste.

Mother's Day

Happy belated Mother's Day to everyone.

I didn't get to touch the computer until about 10pm last night and I was exhausted! I got my email downloaded onto the computer and that was it. . .Didn't even read it - so no blog posting for me (what's new, right?).

I had a great Mom's Day: Church, Lunch with the family at a steakhouse, Working on projects around the house, Workout on the elliptical and supper at 9:45pm. :)

The church gave all of the mothers a flower (not sure what they were, but I got a red one).
The steakhouse gave all of the mothers a carnation (I got a white one).
MBB bought me a subscription for iFit Live for our elliptical that gets him out of buying a Mother's Day Gift and probably a Birthday Gift this year. It's the closest thing that I'll ever get to working out with Jillian Michaels. :)

My favorite part of the day?
A huge hug and "Happy Mother's Day" that I got from MaBell when I got my flowers at church.
How far we have come in the last three years!

Namaste.

Happy Mommy's Day

For Mother's Day, we went to church and then out for lunch.
I got a flower at both places. :)

Then we split up to work on some projects around the house.

MBB and I built a hanging shelf to hold my old TV in the exercise room (the TV is VERY heavy - took three of us to get it up on the shelf). We are pretty serious about using our new toy and need to keep from getting bored.

MaBell and OB hauled some "dark dirt" from another part of the farm. . .
The dirt right in front of our house is clay, so we are going to use the heavily fertilized stuff in our new flower beds. One of the benefits of having cows for neighbors (don't worry, the cows haven't been fed in this area of the farm in quite a few years).

Namaste.

Sweet Sixteen Party

With our busy schedules, we had to have MaBell's Sweet Sixteen Party over a week after her birthday.

We had family arrive at 3 and friends arrive at 4.
I didn't want MaBell to feel like she couldn't spend time with her friends, but I didn't want family taking time to come celebrate and not get to see / talk to her at all.
The staggered times seemed to work well.

We also wanted people to be able to come and go without everyone having to be there to see the candles blown out.
Our solution?
Cupcakes.

We had four different kinds of cupcakes (and a small cake for MBB's college graduation):
. . .Red Velvet with Chocolate Cake inside

. . .Chocolate with Vanilla Creme inside . . .Cookies 'n Cream . . .Red Velvet / Yellow Marble

MaBell had a good time - therefore, I deem the party a success!

Namaste.

Transformation Update

The 1st weigh-in was today. . .
I lost 4 lbs. :)

I don't know what my weight is, but I am being told my loss.

Namaste.

Starting Again. . .

I have started the transformational journey again!
There is a new weight loss competition at work that I have joined. . .
BUT I do not know how much I weight or how much I need to lose (it would be too depressing!).
So, I think that will make me work extra hard to not pay any fines each week. :)

I am hoping that this competition propels me into a good weight management lifestyle.
I no longer have any excuses for not working out. . .
We are now the proud owners of a new elliptical with iFit Live.
I have found that is when my weight goes up - when I am not exercising.

I am also going to keep a food journal. I thought about posting it here for accountability, but I thought I may all of my readers as that is pretty boring stuff! :)

Namaste.

Shedding Time. . .

Yeager-bomb is going into his shedding phase and it is driving us crazy.
I am even begining to think that he is the cause of some of my itchy nose sneezes.

We have tried brushing.
We have tried gloves to brush him.
Nothing seemed to work.

MBB found a new glove that tada. . .
WORKS!

This is one of two piles that I got off of him in one sitting.

Namaste.